tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4044142491333444735.post1696329159267305160..comments2024-01-25T02:22:33.183-05:00Comments on ̶H̶o̶m̶e̶l̶e̶s̶s̶ ̶C̶h̶r̶o̶n̶i̶c̶l̶e̶s̶ ̶i̶n̶ ̶T̶a̶m̶p̶a̶ Lost in the Carolinas: #ROW80 4TH QTR SUNDAY CHECK IN – IS THAT ALL THERE IS?ViolaFuryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05796592763194795436noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4044142491333444735.post-84567804558823919902013-12-08T12:08:55.356-05:002013-12-08T12:08:55.356-05:00Sometimes it's hard to let go of the hurts, ev...Sometimes it's hard to let go of the hurts, even when things are changing and improving. Glad you're having so many other things to feel more upbeat about, Mary, even if this pain still lingers.<br /><br />Congrats on the walking and the viola playing... New callouses, yay!<br /><br />And Mama kitty sure looks happy to be with you. Our feral boy is starting to get more comfortable with people too. Sometimes kitties just need to find their right human, I guess.Eden "Kymele" Mabeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01550337993392791643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4044142491333444735.post-240043620192419922013-12-06T05:24:25.943-05:002013-12-06T05:24:25.943-05:00@Bev,
I am so happy to hear that your new DBS set...@Bev,<br /><br />I am so happy to hear that your new DBS settings are working for you. I know you've had a hell of a year and it's about time you had a chance to enjoy life. I cannot tell you how much you've enriched my life and made me laugh. Damn, you are funny! JC is always asking about you, as well. Your perseverance is an inspiration and an example for everyone. I know that you provided me with the strength to keep on, when I had neurologists saying, "it's all in your head," and yada yada, and all the same stuff you've heard. I was so fortunate to find Dr. Burke and the Primodone has worked wonders. I've put on 12 pounds and I'm playing my viola. It sounded horrible, which I expected. What I didn't expect was how quickly the muscle memory would kick in and take over! So, I have so much to be grateful for, and so much to thank you for. You're on my bucket list, my dear. Now, I'm laughing. Go figure! I love you! MaryViolaFuryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05796592763194795436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4044142491333444735.post-43750125352048809062013-12-06T05:18:39.491-05:002013-12-06T05:18:39.491-05:00@tonette,
Thank you, I appreciate your honesty. F...@tonette,<br /><br />Thank you, I appreciate your honesty. Frankly, there are days where I don't think about it at all. It's more so around birthdays and holidays of course, and the knowing that he slandered my good name to his family, but that's his problem, since I have no contact with them, although they do read my blog and not a one of them has defended him. Oh, well. <br /><br />The holiday season is always fun around here in my house; we've started new traditions, and now that I am being treated for my essential tremor, I am playing my viola again. With my writing and my good and beloved friends around me and the wonderful people I've met online, it's a much different and much better life than before. Thank you for reading and taking the time to comment! Have a wonderful holiday season as well, tonette! MaryViolaFuryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05796592763194795436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4044142491333444735.post-85381474350049150692013-12-06T05:13:57.844-05:002013-12-06T05:13:57.844-05:00@Shan
I forgot to thank you for your Birthday wis...@Shan<br /><br />I forgot to thank you for your Birthday wishes too and worse still, I am so very, very sorry for your loss. That is much worse than any loss I suffered at the hands of my ex. Sometimes, I lose sight of the important things. My life was blighted by him and I have to remember that it is up to me to not let him further taint it. Thanks for the reminder and again, you must hurt every day over the loss of your son; I am sorryViolaFuryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05796592763194795436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4044142491333444735.post-31654545710649071632013-12-06T05:10:48.106-05:002013-12-06T05:10:48.106-05:00@kathy
Mama is the best little kitty. Someone ju...@kathy <br /><br />Mama is the best little kitty. Someone just threw her out when she became pregnant and she was shy and skittish. Now she rules the house. She sleeps in front of the Tee Vee and climbs up in front of my monitors and lays all over my mouse pad when I am gaming. I love her to death! JC rescued her and her ways are so cunning! She is just the best. Thank you for the Birthday wishes, Kathy! and thank you for reading!ViolaFuryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05796592763194795436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4044142491333444735.post-55722848888716620642013-12-06T05:08:09.166-05:002013-12-06T05:08:09.166-05:00@Alberta,
I've been missing you! I am so glad...@Alberta,<br /><br />I've been missing you! I am so glad you're wandering back into your regular haunts. It seems that just as I am getting really back into the swing of things, I have a roaring case of the flu. But, that's never stopped me. <br /><br />I hope you enjoy whatever this Magnum Opus is going to be. Certainly not an Important Work, but more like a Carnival Ride. When one is slapping down drivel like "Nicolas Cage is now a popcorn box, throwing a tantrum," you can be sure that it is NOT a Pulitzer Winner, but it was fun. My Primodone is working wonders!<br /><br />So glad to have you back among the crew, my lady! xoxoViolaFuryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05796592763194795436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4044142491333444735.post-49711923881689986432013-12-06T05:03:45.129-05:002013-12-06T05:03:45.129-05:00@Shan, there was nothing of the kind. This was a s...@Shan, there was nothing of the kind. This was a systematic sequestering of me wholesale by him from the family. Being an only child and having no children of my own and both parents deceased, once my mother passed on, his abuse, both mental and psychological began. The baby was born within 45 minutes and he was back before midnight. I had been present at his other daughter's babies' births. As I was dealing with a frail heart at the time and had been hospitalized and while there he chose that particular time to get a girlfriend, and THEN in the time leading up to the baby's birth, he was cruel to me at every turn, I can assure you, he was making a deliberate choice. His daughter asked me later what had happened. He has to live with himself. As I said, he reads this blog as does the rest of his family and associates and I've painted him to be a complete bastard. This being the case, why has no one corrected me, or defended him? I actually had passed that part of the anger, however, last April I discovered that he was working at a place my mother had worked at, which I consider a HUGE insult. She would have taken it so too. He philandered and lied. I have no animosity towards anyone else, but people really should be held accountable. I stupidly agreed to less than I should have during the divorce proceedings because I was so damned sick. Other than the issue with him, or any other bully, I am perfectly fine with the rest of the world. I was brought up to believe, that when someone has been so callously cruel, not just to me, but anyone. payback is 7-fold. I am a Wallace and we have long memories. Were my mother alive, she would be urging me to seek legal counsel against my divorce attorney and re-open that whole mess. THAT's how bad it was. I had to walk out, with my viola and violin and two bags of clothes because of my heart. So, yeah, there is some righteous anger.<br /><br />But I have the power to say yay, or nay to that. In the meantime, I have viola-playing to do and fixing the Alien Undead Railroad Underground. By the way, they get saved by the Lost Boys, or something of the equivalent. Stay Tuned. xoxoViolaFuryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05796592763194795436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4044142491333444735.post-78840409250612342362013-12-05T17:18:32.848-05:002013-12-05T17:18:32.848-05:00Have a Happy Birthday! I know it's early, but ...Have a Happy Birthday! I know it's early, but I don't get online much.Parkinson's Humor by Yuma Bevhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04511379905985881526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4044142491333444735.post-79592137438729660062013-12-04T23:43:17.204-05:002013-12-04T23:43:17.204-05:00I won't begin to say I know how you feel...bec...I won't begin to say I know how you feel...because I don't, but I do wish you all the best with your writing endeavours - and in all other areas of your life. May the holiday season bring you many reasons to smile.Steph Beth Nickelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05627893861025559884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4044142491333444735.post-76399695792772602992013-12-04T20:39:03.347-05:002013-12-04T20:39:03.347-05:00Birthday greetings.
I hope you find writing as a ...Birthday greetings.<br /><br />I hope you find writing as a therapeutic release and that things will get better for you soon.<br /><br /><br />TonetteAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15192088414588703913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4044142491333444735.post-27394932977049318642013-12-04T01:55:13.251-05:002013-12-04T01:55:13.251-05:00What a sweet kitty! And let me second the happy bi...What a sweet kitty! And let me second the happy birthday wishes.Kathyhttp://doomsdaywriter.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4044142491333444735.post-75367613748540274152013-12-03T04:37:08.177-05:002013-12-03T04:37:08.177-05:00hi haven't been around much lately so sorry - ...hi haven't been around much lately so sorry - just been managing sponser duties and yours has never come up - now nano finished am wandering back to familiar haunts - I loved that song when I was younger -great to hear it again - might add it too songs to be sung at my demise:)<br /><br />well done on missmatch nano - I like the names that change - mine do that - mind you makes a devil pf job getting them all correct in final editing:)<br /><br />as usual you manage to make my day:)alberta rosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02132420168908365099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4044142491333444735.post-318230150851089222013-12-01T22:56:47.289-05:002013-12-01T22:56:47.289-05:00I can feel your anger and hurt, and I'm sorry ...I can feel your anger and hurt, and I'm sorry those things were done to you. <br /><br />Also,as a mom who had what seemed to be a textbook birth go so horribly wrong that my second son died at 12 days old, never having left the NICU, that birth is tricky, and intimate, and there might be reasons involved in your not being invited that had to do not with your ex so much as the mother, and what she needed right then, which might not have been what she thought would happen, sooner.<br /><br />I hope that eventually, you can move through the anger at that treatment, so that this person who treated you badly loses any lingering power over your life and joy.<br /><br />Happy upcoming birthday, viola playing, and working through what seems like an intriguing hot mess!Shan Jeniah Burtonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01757607146774769663noreply@blogger.com